Love

Can an abusive man change? If you believe so, what is the percentage of them you believe can change?

I wrote a letter to give to my friend I was referring to in this post. I brought up a number that I felt was the percent of men that would change, or could change. That number was 1%. I had some people disagree, they said that I was being biased. I had someone try to say “is that a fact”? Well of course it isn’t a fact. To say it is a fact would be a huge overestimation of who you are as a person and your abilities. There is absolutely no way something like this can be proven as fact. If someone can prove  an actual number as a fact, plain and simple, please do let me know. Thinking something like this is letting your ego control you, plain and simple. You know there is no way you can prove it to be a fact, but you have to prove yourself better somehow. Major ego issue that needs to be fixed there my friend.

Why can’t it be proven as a fact? Because you can’t factually prove the intention of every human being on Earth into a number. That would be saying you could see the future, that you can see everything that is ever going to happen. That is completely foolish, and you look like a complete fool by saying it – but wait… You think you sound smart. Educate yourself into being a better person. Being the better person is far from trying to make yourself sound like the better person by a false sense of your own abilities and intelligence.

The letter I am referring to is a letter I wrote to to my friend I was going to pick up. It was a gift to her, something she needed, and something I felt would be a great lesson for her. After starting to write on my blog today, I realized that this wasn’t meant as a gift just to her, it was meant for everyone to read, so I will post it here.

 

I’m going to type what is written in the letters because I can only see about half of what is written. When I took the pictures on my phone they looked great, but on my laptop I am unable to zoom in on them and can’t see half of what they say.

I wanted to come get you because I care about you and I love you. I can’t sit around and let someone suffer if I know there are things I can do to help. If someone can sit around and do nothing while you ask for help, then maybe they are worse off than you are?

Now, on to the tougher part of the things I want to let you know. I already told you why I came up here, so this time I would really like to see you stay. Can you make me a promise? That promise is that you will never go back to him, or any guy like him. Do you think you can do that?

*You saying yes comes with these terms*

You will not believe an abusive jerk because they beg, cry, and go on and on about how much they love you. They go on and on that they have changed, or that they will.

The chances of an abusive man in general changing is maybe about 1%.

An abusive man using only the “I love you, miss you, I have changed, or will change” asshole line has a big fat 0% chance of being sincere.

So, if you can accept the promise, you can agree to see these statements on the next page you have. With the promise you gave me, you agree that if you can not check off ALL of these boxes, then you will not go back to this guy. Pretty please?

If he is trying to make you come back, and you are considering it, then refer to this list. If you can truthfully check every single box, then you will have my approval for this asshole. I’ll even give the prick a hug, maybe even a shot of my vodka, maybe…

  1. He has apologized for every wrong doing he has done to you in actions and words. He takes the initiative to bring up all of these on his own, not you telling him what he should be sorry for.
  2. He did not use the “baby I’m sorry, I love you so much and I promise I’ll change” line. This is the line of liars. 0% change, they will go back to their old ways, guaranteed! How do I know he won’t change with that line? A man sincere would never use that line, they would respect your need for healing time and time alone.
  3. Did he admit FULLY to his history of physical, emotional, sexual, and psychological abuse? Did he see all of the signs of these, and understand how they hurt you so badly? Did he say why he did them, and why he won’t do them again?
  4. Is he no longer playing the victim? Is he accepting what is his fault? Has he told you that he wrongly blamed you for everything wrong, and why?

 

Remember the most important part of all of these checkboxes:

He must take the initiative on his own for them all

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Demons do not exist in the way you think they do.

This is a short post about demonic possession, and how it has been misunderstood.
What is demon possession to you? What Hollywood has shown you? If so, it isn’t true, it is all misinterpretations, and something only to cause fear. Have you ever seen anyone in real life that is possessed by demons like you see in movies? I’m going to go ahead and say no now, because they do not exist. What does exist is people letting negative emotions control their life, and some get so bad that they resemble something that would be considered demonic possession. I have seen it in my personal life a few times, but each of these people created it, it wasn’t a “demon from hell”. It was a personal demon that these people let get so strong, it literally made them crazy, suicidal, turned them into lunatics, changed them physically, and even made some of them deathly sick. This is what being in an extremely low vibration state causes – there isn’t much more to it. When you are in such a low vibration, these negative energies attach to you almost at will, you have no clue on how to control yourself, you’ll fight with a 2 year old if the 2 year old was intimidating you. It is an extremely immature mindset. These people don’t even notice it. These same types of people created the myths that these demonic beings exist, when they don’t really. It is also one of the easiest things you can do to clear this negativity from you, but so many people have no clue how to do it. They call a priest, when the priest has no clue how this works either. Here is a way to look at it. If someone is trying to fight with you, what do you think will happen if you spray some holy water on them, or light some sage? Nothing, you may even make the enemy angrier. The correct way to handle it is to get to the root of the problem the individual is facing, and start from There. Only use good energy on them, do not give in to anything they say, show the negativity in them love, and the negativity can’t harm you.

Truth about Jesus in the Bible

I wrote this in a notebook about 2 weeks ago. I found a very interesting bible, and how it was written out allowed me to write down the the message it was speaking to me. I think this is a very beautiful, extremely truthful and important post. I feel sorry for anyone that could honestly disagree with this. It is similar to the explanation of the truth in The Present, just much shorter how I wrote it and I used some different words such as the law instead of truth and love/life. The law/truth and love/life go hand and hand with each other anyways.

1. Psalm 19:7 “The law of the Lord is perfect, converting the soul; the testimony of the Lord is sure, making wise the simple”.

  • The simple law is love. That is all there is to it.

2. Isiah 45:21,22 “…And there is no other God besides me, a just God and a savior; there is none besides me”.

  • God equals love – only true love is love, no other kind.

3. Genesis 1:27 “So God created man in his own image; in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.”

  • God created man to love one another. God created man out of love, to love others, and to care for others.
  • Man betrayed God  because man betrayed love, man stopped caring for others, man only did for themselves.
  • Man created all the problems now by betraying God. Every problem is this simple. The simple law, love.
  • The return of Jesus is not just going to randomly happen someday out of the blue. He will return when the world is again united in love, and then only. This is only going to happen if you understand and live by the law.

5. Death spread to all men because all men sinned.

  • Sin = Betraying love/life/God
  • Death = Death of the soul/spirit. Death will no longer be feared and will no longer be an issue when everyone is united and living in harmony.
  • Isiah 59:2
  • Romans 3:23

6. In The Bible, it explains Jesus’ Crucifixion. While Jesus is being crucified, he says “Father, forgive them for they know not what they do”.

  • They crucified Jesus in the beginning days of Christianity because Jesus taught the true law. The true law is not being lived or taught today.

7. They didn’t listen to Jesus, instead they crucified him. Jesus didn’t die for your sins that have since been taught by those who betrayed him.

  • He died trying to save the world from what it has turned into today.

It is our job now to get the true word out so we can turn this world around and fix this problem.